PEEPLE PEEPLE PLEEZ

        Confessions. Im no love doctor and aint got no experience but I can tell you for sure that smses are one of the worst to do that. I've seen way too many people messed up because of this. The one who can cause the problem is the confessee(I dont have any other word so bear with me). I mean its only natural for someone to confess. But the problem is when the confessee turns cold towards the confessor. Now dont get me wrong I dont blame the confessee because sometimes people do not know what to do in this situations because maybe their feelings might betray them or they just blank out and shit. Stuck in a dilemma. But thats no reason to avoid and let the confessor feels as if he/she had made the biggest mistake in his/her life. Running away form your problem does not solve it. Either say yes or no. Maybe is not an option. I mean if you're not ready yet or if saying no is too hard then you could just say "I just want us to be friends". AND THEN COMES THE NEXT PROBLEM.

The confessor just needs to get over a reject and move on with life. Feeling sad and shit is very fine. But when they feel bitter about it and cant accept fate they are on the wrong track. They should overcome their anger if they get rejected. Just let the sadness flow if there is a need. Humans cant get everything they want in life. Face the fact. Im not saying there shouldnt be any anger because humans are imperfect. Im just saying that the anger should be contained and overcame as quickly as possible.

And when I say dont turn cold, I dont mean that you have to be cautious of hurting the confessor's heart. Just be politely truthful. And if the confessee cant take it, then its his/her problem. Deal with it themselves.

          Just picture this. You have been waiting your whole life to get the job of your choice and finally you have found a slot. You think you are qualified for the job so you asked for a job application. And somehow you have to wait. And there you are waiting like a dumbass for so long it seems like forever. They are treating you like an idiot. And finally you doubt yourself. Doubt in your ability to think. Thinking that you will never land a good job. And just turn around and leave right after that. I dont want that kind of feeling. No one does. And it will be very painfull if the the person getting a "job" is reluctant to walk off. Thats all I have.(Id like to emphasize the usage of sms for confessions but I aint got no time :P Maybe next time.)

PEACE.